I met my wonderful, loving husband at 18 and married him at A couple of years ago, we decided to spice things up by visiting sex clubs together, a mutual decision that excited us both.
While attending the same event, we both met other people we really connected with. It was completely unexpected, but we now consider ourselves polyamorous. At first, we expected to feel some jealousy, but it never arose. Now, the four of us consider ourselves a family and share holidays, nights out and celebrations, as well as supporting each other through the tougher times.
In addition, we give each other permission to see others casually for sex, as and when the desire arises. It may not be for everyone, but our new-found situation has brought us closer. The trust between us is unbelievably strong, and we know we are together because we love each other very much. There are no secrets and communication is better than it has ever been.
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